Growing up in Connecticut, fall was my favorite season. The colors, the crunch of leaves underfoot, the drier air, and Macoun apples were among the enticements. Over time, and after living for 20 years in warm climates from the desert to the tropics, and then resuming residence in the East – this time in Rochester, spring emerged[...]
Snow, sleigh bells, solace, sustenance; Sitting by the fire; Sharing with family and friends the charms of slowing down or accelerating, as celebrations are sustained or created anew. These are among the welcome images that appear to mind as winter officially nears and beckons occasional breaks from the pace of other times of the[...]
The tree deliberately drinks less, preserving precious liquid for other creatures. Willing life with less water, the tree does not wither. It turns this pause from its summer quench into a splendid sharing of its own fortune, proclaiming its true colors in brilliant glory. In its letting go of its fullest thirst it gives[...]
As gardeners, we appreciate beauty and know its importance in a world which has and has had throughout history, much ugliness, including war, pestilence, famine and oppression. In the face of the latter, Beauty, in all its manifestations Restores balance, Inspires hope Stimulates the mind and imagination, courage and creativity. It connects us to peace[...]
Ways to minimize harm and maximize harmony apply to the workplace, schools, and in the community as they do with couples and families. Some things that trigger negative reactions and conflict include strict adherence to roles and violations of them, taking things personally, assumptions, unspoken agendas, poor communication and feelings of shame, fear of righteousness.[...]
Rochester is my home. In 30-married years, it is the place I have lived longest. Twice I lived in Tucson; a piece of my heart remains there, a piece broken with the shooting of Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords and others, including her district director, a friend with whom I worked on human rights issues. Rochester and[...]